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Yo soy de Santiago, bienvenida! :D y por qué decidiste estudiar acá en Chile?
Ay! Qué bueno! Yo no sé porque decidí estudiar aquí. Supongo que era para los fondos, pude conseguir más becas para ir a un país que normalmente no van los estudiantes americanos. Pero estoy emocionada de quedarme aquí. Quizás puedo conocerte más y después visitarte en Santiago, ¿no?
Whenever i have a crush on s/o i always try to be/act/dress like that person. Because i feel like they will like me more then... How can i stop that?
This is a very difficult situation because everyone does it, to an extent. I think people like to like the same things as their crush because they think it means it will make their crush like them back or more.
And although that might work, some times, most times it doesn’t because after you and your crush have developed a relationship, your interests will come out and they will realize that you lied about liking theirs. Or you will realize that you can’t keep up the appearance of liking things that, in reality, don’t make you happy.
My advice is corny BUT TRUE. Be yourself. You need to find someone that is totally OK with who you are and what you like. Because if not they could be falling in love with a person who doesn’t exist; and you could be building a relationship on a cracking foundation: lies.
Do you known when "the fear of water" with lily loveless is coming out?
I am not sure (I hope that it will be available online so that I can watch it :))
Here’s a link to the trailer and the channel of the director (I think?)
Can you post more naomily posts rather then just lots of asks? :)
I can try and post more of a good mix of the two. I started answering advice because it was a new year and there really isn’t any new Naomily material (plus I got so many requests for advice).
But I will definitely try and post more (although I am study abroad in Chile right now, so it may not be as frequent as usual) :)
Claro que sí :) Estoy en Valpo, Chile para 5 meses, estudiando la química en la Universidad.
hello there, i just want to ask you if you don't know where i can watch "dregs" with Kat Prescott. or if it's on the internet somewhere to download. thank you so much for your answer, i love your blog :)
No sorry. I’ve been looking for it as well.
Thanks for the love :) I will let you know if I do find a copy!
So glad you're finally using more lily gifs!!! Love her!
Hahahaha it’s not that I don’t like her, it’s that most of the GIFs that portray my emotions at the time of answering these anons are of Kat and not Lily…
Why should you breathe through your mouth when going down on a girl?
I don’t know. It was a tip that Shane gave Molly on The L Word. I’ve used it ever since.
But if I'm not gay... or straight.... or bi, so what am I? My biggest problem is knowing who I am. I not sooo scared about be gay or not. But this thing being or not, is fucking confusing me! And I hate have to think about it everyday, and feel weird! I want someone to talk about it, but I'm scared about telling it to my best friend too, tell her how I feel! :/
Although I don’t understand why it is so important for you to be anything but you, I do apologize for my ignorance. I very often forget that other people use their sexuality as a way of knowing who they are, and not a way a describing the person that they already know they are.
It is OK to be confused. No one bypasses the steps of realizing that they are gay. I didn’t just wake up one morning and be like “Oh cool. I like having sex with girls. What’s for breakfast?” I panicked! The first time I was turned on by a lesbian sex scene, I panicked! The first time I realized that what I did with other girls when I was younger was in fact experimenting, I panicked! When I caught myself checking out a girl at the supermarket, I panicked!
It’s all a part of the process. You will be confused and you will be scared and upset and happy and relieved and everything, some times all at once. You just have to learn to accept these emotions as being human emotions. Everyone goes through them at every stage in life, not just when referring to sexuality.
Just take a second out of your day to breathe and not think about anything. Look yourself in the mirror and say “I am [insert name here] and that is all I need to be,” and please, tell someone you trust. They may not give you the same advice but at least you will be able to let it off your chest and feel better :)
I have this very dumb feeling that my little bubble of beeing a lesbian ob the internet will never be the same again. Like i wouldn't have kaelyn and lucy, and naomily and rose and rosie and all that stuff for myswlf anymore which i know sounds so stupid but living like that is so comfortable (watching other people have what i would like to zave). But if i dont come out i will never be able to experience any of that :( so dumb
So you are saying that you are more comfortable being openly gay on the internet because you don’t have to worry about things changing. But if you don’t come out in real life, you won’t be able to experience all that lesbian relationships are about?
This is true, but it’s all up to you. You don’t have to come out if you feel that it will be harder for you.
I think that’s an important lesson that many LGBTQ people miss. You can have a full and wonderful life without being fully out. The community puts so much pressure on people to come out, saying that it’ll make them feel better but some people like not having everyone know. Take me for example: I am queer and I have no problem announcing that on the internet; but in real life, I don’t wear it like a badge, like many other queers do. And I’m OK with that because it makes me feel safe.
You don’t have to let everyone you meet know that you are a lesbian. Because if you do and you aren’t comfortable with others knowing, then you are just robbing yourself of your sense of security (if that makes sense).
And don’t worry about not experiencing what lesbian relationships are all about. I bet you there is another girl out there, just like you, who you will meet and you will be able to have the cutesy stuff with, while also staying under the radar :)
Well, I'm not sure about myself. I had a crush on a girl last year, and I thought it was normal, cause people say that teenagers have "weird feelings". But I always felt a bit nervous about some girls, but sometimes I can forget this. But now this thought is in my head for a long time. I tried my feelings about boys and girls, sometimes I really don't feel anything about boys, but sometimes I do. But at the same time I think I'm wrong somehow... I'm so afraid :/ and the fact that I never +